Body Positivity is Easy — When it’s Not About My Own Body
TW: Body Image, Weight, Dieting, Body Shame
I went on my first diet at 8 years old. Young, yes. But I was a product of screens. My parents would often leave my sisters and I at home during the summer months, usually occupying ourselves by taking bike rides and sitting in front of the television for hours. I remember waking up early and turning on Lifetime, following along with Denise Austin aerobics workouts and watching 5am informercials for weight loss pills and exercise machines. I remember looking down at my little belly, wondering why I didn’t have the six-pack abs they advertised as the ideal goal of every woman and man alike.
I loved looking at fashion magazines and idolizing models like Tyra and my personal favorite, Mariacarla Boscono. I loved her for her ethereal waiflike figure and high, gaunt cheeks. I started practicing my model walk very early, watching Fashion TV and the early launch of the Style Channel — their late-night runway shows and model interviews. I was obsessed.
Scary Spice had abs, so did Britney. Low-rise pants were the rage and paired well with the heroin chic-cum-cocaine addled heiress style icons of the late 1990’s and early 2000’s. Seeing these images, seeing celebrities who had gained weight shamed on Entertainment Tonight and in tabloids at the grocery…